to know what you want

I need to want some results!

Demanding something, and knowing what one demands, of one self makes an interesting framework for making the most of being.  Knowing what results one are after is the equivalent of being in control of one self, and then (ops i just remembered that not all results are as good as the next one, some results are perverted and unhealthy.) successfully being something one are proud of. (btw I believe the perverted results only are wanted by yourself if you are not able to really see where your capacities really lie.  But don't worry, don't worry at all, everybody's got some capacities to be proud of, to develop, to make good with, to have other people be proud of.  If you are not able to see your own capacities you should seek help to look for them, because they are there! oh so definitively.)